Failed to connect

Hello. I cannot join any online server, I get "Failed to connect". Every server also says that there are "1/10 players" on every server, although I know three of my friends are playing on the same server. I can play on my own world, but my friends can't join me when I create a server for my world.

What I have tried:
- Restarting computer
- Reinstalling Valheim
- Joining the host directly through Steam
- Relaunching Valheim
- Checked firewall settings
- Checked that my game is up-to-date
- Checked that my internet is working properly

Any suggestions? How can I get to play with my friends?
8:13 pm, September 2, 2021
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Yanavaev replied to Failed to connect April 1, 2023 @ 12:34:30 am PDT

Devs broke the game. Again.
These every week minor updates are annoying.
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Kejsaren replied to Failed to connect September 3, 2021 @ 10:14:35 am PDT

Originally posted by SubsidedLemon:
Do you use, or did you use mods?
Do your friends use mods?

Did you try joining friends by IP using the ingame option? (they have a dedicated server?)

No mods, neither me or they. I did not try to join by IP since none of us know how to check the IP and since I see no reason why it would work. We would be playing in one of my friends world. My other friends have no problems joining, but for some reason I could not join them. Thank you for the suggestion though.
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SubsidedLemon replied to Failed to connect September 3, 2021 @ 10:16:28 am PDT

Originally posted by Kejsaren:
Originally posted by SubsidedLemon:
Do you use, or did you use mods?
Do your friends use mods?

Did you try joining friends by IP using the ingame option? (they have a dedicated server?)

No mods, neither me or they. I did not try to join by IP since none of us know how to check the IP and since I see no reason why it would work. We would be playing in one of my friends world. My other friends have no problems joining, but for some reason I could not join them.
The person who hosts it. Does he host it from home? Or is it a hired server?

Originally posted by hazelrah:
my wife has this problem sometimes. what we've found is that her steam profile is offline, even though she is able to see her friends list and it shows she is online. logging out of steam and relogging in seems to fix it.
I'm pretty sure he tried this by restarting his PC.
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Kejsaren replied to Failed to connect September 3, 2021 @ 10:19:34 am PDT

Originally posted by hazelrah:
my wife has this problem sometimes. what we've found is that her steam profile is offline, even though she is able to see her friends list and it shows she is online. logging out of steam and relogging in seems to fix it.

Hmm, it is worth a shot but I restarted the computer already. Of course, if Steam somehow automatically puts me in offline mode then it could explain things. Thanks.
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Kejsaren replied to Failed to connect September 3, 2021 @ 10:19:55 am PDT

Originally posted by SubsidedLemon:
Originally posted by Kejsaren:

No mods, neither me or they. I did not try to join by IP since none of us know how to check the IP and since I see no reason why it would work. We would be playing in one of my friends world. My other friends have no problems joining, but for some reason I could not join them.
The person who hosts it. Does he host it from home? Or is it a hired server?

Originally posted by hazelrah:
my wife has this problem sometimes. what we've found is that her steam profile is offline, even though she is able to see her friends list and it shows she is online. logging out of steam and relogging in seems to fix it.
I'm pretty sure he tried this by restarting his PC.

He hosts from home.
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SubsidedLemon replied to Failed to connect September 3, 2021 @ 10:23:11 am PDT

Originally posted by Kejsaren:
Originally posted by SubsidedLemon:
The person who hosts it. Does he host it from home? Or is it a hired server?


I'm pretty sure he tried this by restarting his PC.

He hosts from home.
He can go to www.whatismyip.com (DONT publicly share the IP here though and be cautious who you share your IP with).

Default Valheim port is 2456 (if he has not changed that this'll work)

So to join you'd have to fill in his IP adress and add ":2456" to it. It'll look something like:
123.456.789:2456

Edit: Some interpunction added for readability :)
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Kejsaren replied to Failed to connect September 3, 2021 @ 10:25:43 am PDT

Originally posted by SubsidedLemon:
Originally posted by Kejsaren:

He hosts from home.
He can go to www.whatismyip.com (DONT publicly share the IP here though and be cautious who you share your IP with).

Default Valheim port is 2456 (if he has not changed that this'll work)

So to join you'd have to fill in his IP adress and add :2456 to it. It'll look like:
123.456.789:2456

Thanks, we will try that the next time we try to play together.
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SubsidedLemon replied to Failed to connect September 3, 2021 @ 10:30:23 am PDT

Originally posted by Kejsaren:
Originally posted by SubsidedLemon:
He can go to www.whatismyip.com (DONT publicly share the IP here though and be cautious who you share your IP with).

Default Valheim port is 2456 (if he has not changed that this'll work)

So to join you'd have to fill in his IP adress and add :2456 to it. It'll look like:
123.456.789:2456

Thanks, we will try that the next time we try to play together.
Allright. Please let us know if it worked :)
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76561198030784086 replied to Failed to connect September 2, 2021 @ 12:57:00 pm PDT

Servers are almost always password protected. So unless you have a friend that you are playing with, or find a group in a LFG channel, you'll find that across the board.

The problem comes with the fact that..well...who can you trust to not destroy/take your stuff? Glitch out your world and make it unloadable?

Too many problems for open multiplayer.

As for not being able to join friends, try using the Google for ways to connect to them, as I'm dumb in that area.
5:13 pm, September 3, 2021
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Kejsaren replied to Failed to connect September 3, 2021 @ 9:33:13 am PDT

Originally posted by GunsForBucks:
FYI you are also showing as offline on steam.

Do you have your friends list privacy set to offline?

I have no problem in connecting to my friends on Steam. I ended up watching my friends play through the Steam spectator tool, as I gave up on being able to join them.
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Kejsaren replied to Failed to connect September 3, 2021 @ 9:34:34 am PDT

Originally posted by Frozztastic:
Servers are almost always password protected. So unless you have a friend that you are playing with, or find a group in a LFG channel, you'll find that across the board.

The problem comes with the fact that..well...who can you trust to not destroy/take your stuff? Glitch out your world and make it unloadable?

Too many problems for open multiplayer.

As for not being able to join friends, try using the Google for ways to connect to them, as I'm dumb in that area.


The "Failed to connect" box pops up before any password box.
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SubsidedLemon replied to Failed to connect September 3, 2021 @ 9:45:43 am PDT

Do you use, or did you use mods?
Do your friends use mods?

Did you try joining friends by IP using the ingame option? (they have a dedicated server?)
5:13 pm, September 3, 2021
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hazelrah replied to Failed to connect September 3, 2021 @ 10:11:55 am PDT

my wife has this problem sometimes. what we've found is that her steam profile is offline, even though she is able to see her friends list and it shows she is online. logging out of steam and relogging in seems to fix it.
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Frozztastic replied to Failed to connect September 2, 2021 @ 12:57:00 pm PDT

Servers are almost always password protected. So unless you have a friend that you are playing with, or find a group in a LFG channel, you'll find that across the board.

The problem comes with the fact that..well...who can you trust to not destroy/take your stuff? Glitch out your world and make it unloadable?

Too many problems for open multiplayer.

As for not being able to join friends, try using the Google for ways to connect to them, as I'm dumb in that area.
8:13 pm, September 2, 2021
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GunsForBucks replied to Failed to connect September 2, 2021 @ 12:57:50 pm PDT

FYI you are also showing as offline on steam.

Do you have your friends list privacy set to offline?
8:13 pm, September 2, 2021
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