Anyone know a good let's play recording of the mod that isn't all vomity head bounces?

You've checked out vhvr, the vr mod?
Its almost just as good as native supporr

There is a VR mod, but I don't know if VR support will be official anytime soon. Here is a link to the mod: https://www.nexusmods.com/valheim/mods/847 if you feel inclined to look at it.