So I'm testing the server out with a friend who lives in another state. We're both on fresh installs, both of us loaded up the game and exited before adding the server information. The server is also on a fresh install with no mods.

When I connect 1st, I get a password screen, and my friend gets stuck on a connecting screen until it fails to connect.

When my friend connects 1st, he gets the password screen, and I get stuck on a connecting screen until it fails to connect.

My friend can also connect with his PC and console at the same time, and I still cannot connect. But if I connect 1st, then neither his PC or his console can connect to the server.

I am certain this is not a client side issue. Anyone have any ideas?