... I have questions.

What, precisely, is "ruining it for the rest of us"? Are you experiencing connectivity issues, and attributing that to the crossplay functionality for some reason? Or are you just mad that the other kids are playing in the same sandbox you are? I'm not experiencing any issues that I can imagine as being related specifically to crossplay.

Don't get me wrong, I totally believe that PC is better than console; I just don't believe that crossplay has any effect on the PC experience (other than being one more potential point of failure in the "house of cards" that is software development). Can you explain what you mean, maybe give us some details as to what you're experiencing?

Ohh but it does read the patch notes ever since this came to xbox its been bad

https://store.steampowered.com/news/app/892970

I can see where XBox has had some "teething issues", but I still don't understand why you think that has any effect on PC players.

Ok, yeah, left handed mousing got broken for a minute, but that may or may not have had anything to do with XBox; I've seen any number of games that have controller issues after some random patch. Mods broke (again), but that's an "every update" type of thing.

What issues, specifically, are you experiencing?

My point is, they're not going to "remove crossplay because some random player is upset that the game got ported to console" (if nothing else, there's the small matter of a contract with a 2.2 trillion dollar global megacorp), so the best thing to be done is find ways to resolve and/or work around whatever issues you're having... which we can't do if you can't or won't describe what the actual problem is.