Adjust the FOV in game to the distance from the monitor you sit. Remove all the stupid things like motion blur, head bob, and all the other things that people don't actually experience in the real world that are just the movie industry influence on games (camera effects... really?)

This has a good overview of viewing distance and FOV
https://www.the-home-cinema-guide.com/tv-viewing-distance.html

And these will calculate your in-game FOV based on your actual viewing distance and monitor size for your optimal gaming FOV setting.
https://www.pages.drexel.edu/~nac93/fov_calculator/
https://www.fov-calculator.com/
https://sensitivityconverter.net/field-of-view-fov-calculator/

And this has the actual math if you want to do it manually.
https://developer.valvesoftware.com/wiki/Field_of_View