Try the looking for group sub forum.
You may want to include..
Continent you live on
What type of server you have/looking for
What mods you run or unmodded
What communication service you use <steam voice/discord>

If in North America I wouldn't mind playing without mods using steam chat and starting fresh. Or if you just need help with something. <I find it hard to find people willing to use steam chat ha ha.. people seem hung up on discord typically>