Originally posted by Nefrarya:

I really wish people would stop ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ on other people's playstyles. If you like this, good for you. If other people like it differently, good for them.

If you want other people to play with you your way, TALK to them. Lording your server settings over others doesn't seem like a great way of starting a co-op experience to me.