Originally posted by GunsForBucks:

Drop down box in your library set it for all instead of games or tools to find the server download.

Tell the admin to have the server shut down daily for a reset.
At that time it can be told to grab any updates so your server could auto update itself at the reset time.

With this I was able to find the dedicated server (thanks!), installed, double-click, it´s doing something, but that´s it..

The things are, we are only 3players with me being the only who plays currently. We/I can´t contact the admin/host, ´cause ironically he´s getting brainwashed due to media addiction, so no phone, no chat, basically cave life with drums and other people making noises.

Also, it´s all vanilla and I hope if we do mod the game it´s all going well xD
Also also, I´m happy when I can start a pc without it bursting into flames, an instruction for dummy´s would be awesome ^^