I haven't joined a public session because I would be that guy, after 1500 hours and doing everything legit. To the point of beating every boss multiple times to farming the resources to build a base so big it drops every ones fps down to 10 fps. I have no interest in farming to build ever again, I will always be in debugmode to build now. The grind is not fun to me anymore but I still love to build.

If I did join a public session I would be going into it EXPECTING this to happen. I can build a giant castle in the time it takes my gf to build a small wood tavern. Guess what? We both still enjoy the game regardless of what we choose to do in it. She will get there with time, until then we are both enjoying the journey.