You just didn't play long enough to learn how to play. Back in the 80s games were hard on purpose to make you keep shoving quarters into arcade machines. Some of us prefer games that are hard and take a bit of skill and learning to master.

Part of a game like Valheim is the journey not the boss fights. The only issue I had as a brand new player was getting the fine wood required to build the tool that allowed you to harvest fine wood. The shipwreck you are supposed to take apart on my original map seed didn't exist on my start island. The closest was on the opposite end of the adjacent island that was all Black Forest and infested with trolls.