@Almirounet: We are what we are. All good in my view.
@Soulreaver: I know you weren't looking for tips, but if I may...
1. Don't fight raids while they're happening. You're going to lose.
2. A strong house is one of the most important measures you need to undertake. It will protect you from raids. You need to repair it from within while the raid lasts.

Once it ends... go out and smack them silly.