Originally posted by Karlos:

How can I find my own server's IP though, to give to a friend - he's in Australia, I'm in the Eastern US, he can't find my server in his long search.

Go to Google, type My IP. That will be your external IP address.

Give that to your friend followed by the port, like this: 123.123.123.123:2457

The exact port can be 2456 to 2458. My dedicated server uses 2457.

Next time you have an issue, you should start a new thread in the Bugs & Technical forum, as the moderators frown on Necroing old threads.