Originally posted by Frostbringer:

Originally posted by Lion-O, Lord of the Thundercats:

I understand. Point im making, is that they should provide an option for those who dont want to play like that.

They do.
Password protect the server so you can control who can join.

Your issue is your friend not enforcing the rules that You want.

Your friend , as admin, defines the rules of his server, and if he wanted to, could remove everything the other player brought in from his other server.

Yes this is clearly a friend session that OP is talking about. So there is no way to stop your friends from bringing stuff in without banning your friend lol. OP wants a system that forces everyone that joins their friends session to start fresh which I don't see them adding because most people would communicate with their friends on how they're going to play.

OP needs to grow a pair and speak up to their "friends" if it's assumed that they went into it as a group that wants to remain on tier with one another. Otherwise OP needs to learn how to deal with it.