Simplest starting point is probably just to install https://thunderstore.io/package/ebkr/r2modman and browse the list in order of popularity / recent updates but here's my QoL list:

AntiSlipShoes
BeastsOfBurden
BetterLadders
BiggerBoatMapExploreRadius
BlastFurnaceAllOres
CraftingWithContainers
CraftyCartsRemake
CustomGraphicsSettings
Fall_Damage_For_Creatures
FermenterPercentage
FloatingItems
InstantMonsterLootDrop
InteractWhileBuilding
Item_Stand_All_Items
PlantEverything
SlopeCombatFix
SwapWeaponsOnTheRun
TeleportWolves
TorchesEternal
UseEquipmentInWater
ValheimPerformanceOptimizations
WishboneSlot

Names are mostly self explanatory I think.

Dedicated_server_devcommands might be handy depending on your multiplayer setup. As a server admin it's also important to know that it exists.

Currently experimenting with ExhaustionPlus to remove the three second pause between taking any action and starting to regenerate stamina, but it's difficult to find settings that aren't effectively a free movement cheat mode.

For the specific thing you wish to fix:

Custom_Raids