Originally posted by Bender:

Same ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ i just experienced. No mods. all up to date. And my friend CANNOT join my server. keeps saying failed to connect. tried everything in my power. install again, verify files, like. what else can i do? Sick of games being so half assed these days.

restart the server. i was having issues joining my own server. i restarted both the client and the server. no issues