has basically just begun the journey to current endgame. complains already. game isnt for you clearly.

if your base was destroyed by that your base sorry to say it that bluntly : was simply not a GOOD BASE to begin with.

you can go to the swamp long before this event even occurs as you must kill elder for it to even happen. and going to the swamp at night can unlock stone cutter and with it stonewalls by just killing a few ozzers in the night. you only need 2 scrap iron for it.

plus you can bait the monsters to chase after you until the timer of the raid event expires. most are melee enemies.

you dont want a brutal survival experience. yet game is discribed to be precisely that. you want a chill easy experience. well too bad. then this game simply IS NOT MEANT FOR YOU to BEGIN WITH. you bought a game which clearly doesnt fit what you want. asking for it to become what you want. thats just selfish and would ruin this game for alot of others in exchange. thus wont happen.

there is plenty of easy chilling survival games out there for you. valheim isnt one of them by default. if you truely wanna change it there is mods aswell. but dont ask for the vanilla game to change to cater to YOUR needs. thats just stupid by default.