I have a suggestion, if you don't like Valheim, cry quietly and play something else. I enjoy it the way it is. If you're careful, you won't die as often. It's not just about punching the monsters in the mouth and being invincible. You have to be a bit tactical or arm yourself well enough to advance into new areas. If you don't have time for it, just don't play it. There are bound to be games that you enjoy more. After all, not everyone can like the same thing. Valheim is not finished yet. Maybe the developers will add something like difficulty levels or turn this on and turn this off... for that you can follow the game on Steam to see what's new. And if you like something there, watch it again.
Always this whining here, it gets on my nerves...