It seems it might be case of personal likes.

Wandering about at night can be hazardous, but we have the option to sleep through the night and thus avoid any nasty surprises we might encounter in the dark.

Weapon/shield push as a trait is a good thing. If you use it right it helps you control the fight and even escape if you bit off more than you can chew.

I only play solo, but I have to admit I don't really understand what you are saying about respawns on solo maps.

Again, much of what you don't like have options you can take to mitigate some of problems. but only you can decide if those options are things you want to try.