Incorrect, it is not like Chicago- at least Chicago has good pierogis!

In all honesty, though, it is rough that you think this. In Valheim, yes, you are a character tested by Odin to face an overwhelmingly hostile world, but much in this world is not hostile. Not to be in the business of dispensing life advice, but it might help to spend some time away from Valheim and doing some volunteer work and traveling. Such an embittered outlook will only serve to weaken you.