I suggest thunderstore mod manager, as most the big modders moved there instead of Nexus.
My mod code is: D6J8Cr1rlB
You can import the list within Thunderstore MM and it will download my mod list automatically.
I've tested my mod setup thoroughly and it was being used on a server that was consistently full all the time and no one ever had an issue. It's not super hard or super easy but adds a lot of content to the game without decreasing performance. Most of the mods are ones listed here and are on the top most downloaded mods lists.